Update on my gf moving out after a 5 yr relationship?
hey guys just wanted some advise from the yahoo user family..I’ve been with my gf for 5 years and we’ve been living together for 2 and a halfs…we recently got an apt together after moving out of my parents house and we’ve been living in this apt for 9 months and now she wants to move out and go back to her moms house. She’s turning 21 this year and she told me that she doesn’t want to be committed until shes married and that she wants to live with someone when she gets married and thats it. She says were like a married couple already I bought all this expensive furniture and i don’t know what to do with all of it. Do you guys think she wants to see other guys or have more freedom/space?? i’m not a jealous boyfriend, i let her go out with her friends and i’ve done everything to keep her happy. i really thought that this girl was the one for me.she was my bestfriend and I was planning on perposing to her after i graduated from the police academy.should i move on?? any advise?
9 hours ago – 3 days left to answer.
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7 hours ago
ok guys thanks for the advise she just informed me that she doesn’t see herself living with me at this point in her life. She’s not ready to live with someone until shes married and has a house and it doesnt sound like she wants to get married anytime soon. she said she needs her space. she wants to continue the relationship but just not living together. i feel like im losing her slowly this has really stressed me out and i just wish she wanted to stay living together. i feel like shes the one for me but not living together makes me feel like im losing her. what do u guys think? should i get over it and make things workout this way or should i just let her go and start a new chapter in my life with somone else?
19 hours ago – 3 days left to answer.
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alright guys i decided to let her go…..no matter what i say or do nothing is going to change her mind. she wants to go back home and when the "time" is right we’ll live together again……i doubt that one. i’m just gonna focus on my career and live my life the to fullest with no regrets! what do u guys think?
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