Im 13 and im talking to a 17 year old guy. Hes my sister’s boyfriends friend. We have been talking for a few weeks now and we both like each other and know it. He will call me his future gf. We only get to see each other on the weekends. I’ve brought it up to him why we aren’t boyfriend and girlfriend and he says that he wants to see his girl daily not once or twice a week and want to do what he wants when he want and not have to worry about who sees. My parents don’t know because of course they wouldn’t like it, i have 3 older sisters and 2 are okay with it and 1 im not really sure about. But anyways i like him but there’s nothing i can do to change the problems so i told him i didn’t want to talk anymore. So a few days have passed and we haven’t talk and randomly one day we started talking on myspace and he ended up texting me. We were having a normal conversation (nothing about relationships or anything like that) and he randomly said i should send a naked picture. I didn’t say no but i never sent one. He said he still likes me and i believe him because when i told him i didn’t want to talk to him he didn’t want to stop but i did so we stopped. But I’m nervous to believe him. Also he’s never asked about anything like that. Well except once but to not that extent. And i kinda would want to do that but kinda nervous with this guy. What do you think? i need advise badly! HELP PLEASE!
you are nervous b/c thats something that your intuition is telling you to stay away from. listen to it. a female have a thing called inutition men have it too but they are not keen to it like females. that nervousness is good. around 17 his sexhormones have sky rocketed. if you are avirgin stay like that til you are ready or marriage preferably marriage would protect you from alot of heart breaks. but if you are not a virgin then please once again listen to that feeling… he is bad news. cause if he lies you and i mean truly likes you.. he would have your best interest at heart. and obviously he doesn’t. fyi… a guy would say anything and do anything just to get what they want.. first its a naked picture he wants then all of a sudden he is rubbing you in places you probably don’t want to be touched at. stay safe honey.
May 25th, 2010 at 11:11 am
you are nervous b/c thats something that your intuition is telling you to stay away from. listen to it. a female have a thing called inutition men have it too but they are not keen to it like females. that nervousness is good. around 17 his sexhormones have sky rocketed. if you are avirgin stay like that til you are ready or marriage preferably marriage would protect you from alot of heart breaks. but if you are not a virgin then please once again listen to that feeling… he is bad news. cause if he lies you and i mean truly likes you.. he would have your best interest at heart. and obviously he doesn’t. fyi… a guy would say anything and do anything just to get what they want.. first its a naked picture he wants then all of a sudden he is rubbing you in places you probably don’t want to be touched at. stay safe honey.
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