if u married for the "right" reasons, why is your marriage NOT perfect?
I dont have marriage problems and yes i’m happy married and i did marry for the right reasons BUT my marriage isnt perfect….No marriage is.
Money isn’t everything and it doesn’t buy happiness.
March 18th, 2010 at 8:37 pm
men have a weakness for other sexy females…
not mine, personally, but in general…
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March 18th, 2010 at 8:45 pm
I dont have marriage problems and yes i’m happy married and i did marry for the right reasons BUT my marriage isnt perfect….No marriage is.
Money isn’t everything and it doesn’t buy happiness.
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March 18th, 2010 at 8:54 pm
um…YEAH! drew peterson!
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March 18th, 2010 at 9:06 pm
1- Marry for love, not for money. I got married right outta high school..neither of us had but 50 bucks between us.
2-No one’s marriage is perfect.
3-Marry for love, not money.
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March 18th, 2010 at 9:25 pm
I guess it would not be a marriage if it waz perfect. No matter what u do it will never be perfect, but that the challenge and thatz what keeps u together. Working thru it and being there for each other.
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March 18th, 2010 at 10:03 pm
Who are you talking to???
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March 18th, 2010 at 10:19 pm
My wife didn’t marry me for money 20 years ago. I didn’t have any. She did love my ambition. Over time that ambition produced a nice income. But she is not materialistic. I gave her a 45K new car budget last year, she bought a 17K car.
We both see money as a way to buy nice "neighbors"/nice schools good music lessons and overall security for the kids. Not as a means to getting ever more "stuff".
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March 18th, 2010 at 11:02 pm
Because loving someone is the hardest thing you will ever do and some people, including my twice divorced self are just not up to the challenge.
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March 18th, 2010 at 11:40 pm
Everyone is unique, everyone is different, everyone has their own path to happiness. Nobody can answer this for you (or anyone else). Many times, people show bitterness as a result of their own mistakes in life…you can’t ask a bitter, angry person for the path to happiness.
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March 18th, 2010 at 11:48 pm
Actually the expectation that marriages are suppose to be always good, and never bad is unrealistic.
If you got told to not marry for money, that says you are not really in love in marrying for something that most expect in a marriage. Do all marriages have love. Nope. Many go from good to bad in a cycle. If you have not loved them at one point, to one to kill them the next, you have not experienced a marriage. To make it requires dealing with both extremes. There are great and horrible times.
But do whatever you want, it’s your life.
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March 19th, 2010 at 12:33 am
No one or no marriage is perfect and it is unreasonable to expect this but I would much rather have my husband next to me than an old man with money!
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March 19th, 2010 at 12:45 am
I married for money and my marriage is perfect
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March 19th, 2010 at 1:13 am
In case you didn’t know it NOTHING is perfect.. I don’t know who you are calling a hypocrite but money can’t buy love, or happiness, you should love a person for who they are weather they have 1dollar or hundreds of dollars .I sure hope you learn the true meaning of marriage before you get married because you have no clue….
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March 19th, 2010 at 1:58 am
I did marry for the right reason, love and my marriage is fine. I surely did not marry for $, I make more than hubby. Our marriage is perfect.
Why are people hypocrites? Dunno.
Mary in Camden, MI
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March 19th, 2010 at 2:10 am
The fact that a lot of people marry for love doesn’t mean they are invulnerable to money problems. You can love a man very much, but if he has been unemployed for 6 months and isn’t even looking, the love is bound to go.
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March 19th, 2010 at 2:57 am
There has to be a balance. People say what they know is socially acceptable, but they are not being reasonable. To make a marriage last you need much more than love. You need stability in a partner, as well as in yourself, and that includes financial stability- money. Anyone who is just looking for love in a marriage is not mature enough for it, and that is why there are so many divorces
People live in some la-la land and need to bring their feet back to the ground.
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March 19th, 2010 at 3:12 am
Nothing is perfect. Are you perfect? Do whatever you want because honestly I could care less about your life & the decisions you make. You’re just trying to argue a point that makes no sense to me because I’m not a high priced hooker f*cking someone that would otherwise make me ill. You’re trying to appeal to the wrong audience. Go get your check sweetie & cringe when he kisses you. You’ll be happy 10% of the time when you’re spending his money, and unhappy 90% of the time. So, how is that better than a couple who love each other deeply and have some issues occasionally?
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March 19th, 2010 at 3:39 am
While many people have marital problems, all of the married inhabitants of the earth do not come to yahoo answers to ask questions relating to their marriage.
So this is a handful in retrospect.
While money is called the root of all evil, every relationship we enter into is taking a gamble. I’d marry for money myself. It’s true.
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March 19th, 2010 at 4:27 am
Just imagine how much more problems you’ll have if you marry without love. But then again, you have a point, if you don’t love your partner you won’t give a ….. about what he/she does.
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March 19th, 2010 at 5:05 am
My marriage IS perfect. ….most days.
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March 19th, 2010 at 5:38 am
I never told you that.
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