Is it true that most marriage problems stemming from miserable sexual life of the partner (specially non-expressive shy women), as dissatifaction and desire? What do you think? And the bed is the best arena to solve all the marriage problems!
To some degree. If you aren’t lovers then you may as well be brother & sister.
January 27th, 2010 at 2:27 am
not necessarily – we don’t have a problem in the bedroom, but I have almost broken up with my husband because of his baggage. However they say that couples who get along in the bedroom tend to get along in life better, too.
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January 27th, 2010 at 2:41 am
I think most marital problems stem from financial problems, and that problems in the bedroom tend to stem from those.
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January 27th, 2010 at 3:00 am
If only it were that simple.
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January 27th, 2010 at 3:18 am
No it is not true .Most marriage problems stem from financial troubles.This can lead to bedroom problems and lack of communication.You cannot solve marriage problems by having sex with your spouse.You need an outside source such as a counselor to help.Sex is not the most important part of a marriage and if you think it is then you are in trouble.
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January 27th, 2010 at 3:23 am
No, you are actually telling on yourself (LOL). Sorry to hear the bad news.
Most marriage problems are caused by financial issues.
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January 27th, 2010 at 4:02 am
i reckon thats a pretty important factor
but i think the top reason would be money problems.. that always causes the most amount of arguments
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January 27th, 2010 at 4:40 am
Most marriage problems result from a conflict in values, life goals and interests as well as from a lack of communication and commitment to the marriage in the beginning. Those things lead to sex problems and sometimes couples do not acknowledge the fact that a problem exists until that happens. No. The bed is not a place to solve anything it only postpones the solutions and provides a temporary cover where the problems can hide.
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January 27th, 2010 at 4:47 am
Statistically, most marriage problems stem from money problems.
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January 27th, 2010 at 4:58 am
I think sex can definitely make or break a relationship……It’s a very important part of a relationship. It’s not what it’s all about, but it’s very important. Sometimes problems are not brought up by sex though. sometimes there can be other problems that are not caused by a lack of or dissatisfied sex life.
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January 27th, 2010 at 5:32 am
No it would be numerous different problems going on such as money for example. But with that said it usually does take it’s toll in the bedroom later on.
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January 27th, 2010 at 6:04 am
Most problems stem from some mutual failure of emotional/marital support that depletes the love needed to have a satisfying sex life. It’s not the root cause, it’s what people take notice of, particularly men.
Sometimes the root cause really is in the bedroom. For example there’s a couple that have made some post here where she has been lying to her bf, fiance, and now husband and has never had an orgasm – she always faked it. Relationship-ending-bedroom-mistake.
Lots of post above describe mutual failings. Finical for example; he has a responsibility to make a living and she has a responsibility to live within their means. If he’s blowing money on crap they don’t need, he’s failing to provide for her. If she’s blowing money on crap she’s failing to nest for him.
Young couples in particular, if your guy is only pulling in $35k, you have to figure out a budget that makes it work, you can’t try to live like he makes $40k.
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January 27th, 2010 at 6:17 am
No it only puts the problem on hold it doesnt solve anything unless the fight is over sex
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January 27th, 2010 at 6:42 am
for me this is true that’s the only reason me and my husband fight and I almost didn’t marry him because he never initiates sex. Other than that we don’t fight about anything else. He makes me feel undesirable.
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January 27th, 2010 at 7:00 am
To some degree. If you aren’t lovers then you may as well be brother & sister.
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January 27th, 2010 at 7:19 am
Actually, in the experience of those of us who are counseling professionals, the major marital issue causing couples to seek us out has to do with finances – in other words, money. Sexual difficulties are actually pretty far down on the list of reasons for marital discord.
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