If marriage counseling didnt help, why do people keep saying to get counseling for marriage problems?

Posted by admin on February 19th, 2010 and filed under marriage problems | 3 Comments »

I just asked a question about my marriage problems and I said that we tried marriage counseling and it did NOT work. But people keep nagging saying you need counseling! Why can’t people freakin listen?!

Because they don’t know how to solve your problems and they want you to seek professional assistance. Often times our need for an open ear gets misinterpreted as a request for advice.

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3 Responses

  1. fallen angel Says:

    well my opinion is if marriage counseling didn’t work ..and the two of you can’t work things out ..well I’m guessing you may need a divorce …good luck
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  2. Bear who SIngs Says:

    There’s more to marriage counseling then just going to office, hashing out your differences, and then leaving the office. I feel certain the counselor talks with you about how to use "tools" provided to work at certain issues together. Probably the part you don’t get is, it takes the both of you to want the same thing. So, if you both apply what you learn in counseling, then marriage counseling could work. Counseling doesn’t work by itself. The mechanics have to be applied by both participants of the relationship.
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  3. DJ Says:

    Because they don’t know how to solve your problems and they want you to seek professional assistance. Often times our need for an open ear gets misinterpreted as a request for advice.
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