i mean do you think that every single time a man wants to cheat, there’s problems in the marriage?
Yes, I do…
Cheating is a symptom, resulting in the real problems in the marriage.
Happily married people don’t cheat…
Unless of course, he’s just a Dog, plain and simple. In which case, why would you want to be married to such a man anyway?
March 30th, 2010 at 3:11 pm
yeah, the problem is that he wants to cheat
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March 30th, 2010 at 3:30 pm
Yes, I do…
Cheating is a symptom, resulting in the real problems in the marriage.
Happily married people don’t cheat…
Unless of course, he’s just a Dog, plain and simple. In which case, why would you want to be married to such a man anyway?
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March 30th, 2010 at 4:10 pm
Tough question. I imagine some people can do it and have no problems, as long as secrets are always secrets, and you dont have guilty feelings that would change the way you are around your spouse.
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March 30th, 2010 at 4:29 pm
Yes it is called wanting his cake and eating it. There are not always problems in a marriage for someone to cheat and regardless of what the cheater says or makes the victim feel the only problem is with the one that cheated in the first place.
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March 30th, 2010 at 4:59 pm
His willingness to cheat IS the problem. Commitment issues, anyone?
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March 30th, 2010 at 5:38 pm
I think some people, can totally justified to themselves why they cheated…almost like criminals, they truly lack empathy for anyone else but themselves….and as long as everything is kept a secret… the cheated on spouse can have no idea. It’s truly a shame….because what a lie they are living.
But with most cheaters, the guilt alarm does sound, but they are able to silence it sometimes, and when they can’t….they take these guilt feelings out on their spouse, by pushing them away, blaming them for little problems and big problems. Then after they get done, blaming their spouse for whatever, they start to lose the guilt feeling, because their spouse really is the source of their unhappiness in their mind, and the cheater is now the victim. It’s a vicious cycle that will be repeated until the cheater is busted.
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March 30th, 2010 at 6:10 pm
theres definitly a communication problem. hell no guys will cheat when the wife looks like jessica simpson. guys will tell u their having marital problems and it really is doing great. hes probably imature well yea he is imature lol
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