Study show that they are less likely to be ablie to find mates ,and are more likly to live a life of solitude.
Develop a relationship with someone first and see if you are compatible with time and don’t ask random people out! This is where I see a lot of people getting into trouble. Finding someone takes time and finding someone for life may never happen. My longest relationship was a year mainly because they moved and left for someone closer to home.
Also I should tell you that some people are not exactly happy in relationships. If you want a relationship you should want one not for the fact of loneliness but for the fact that you love them, that they are a dear friend, and you share something that you feel is impossible to have with anyone else. A good relationship never has fights, often lasts for a long time, and would in theory survive long distances… but you must realize that a relationship is not a one person game. Both people should be mutually content.
When it comes to studies they are all well and good but they don’t analyze an individual, every individual has their own obstacles to overcome. The best advice is to either never give up, or do the exact opposite but keep a window open for opportunity. If you do the opposite, find things in life that you enjoy and pursue them with a passion, forget about actively finding a personal mate. If someone happens to come your way accept them or make sure they are right for you before you except them. Solitude in some senses may be far better then a relationship! Always realize that and don’t let yourself be caught up in depression because you don’t have someone. I have seen a lot of bad relationships, I have seen a lot of relationships that people are together for the sake of being together, and I have found relationships that appear to a match that out does everything else. I guess this is not my best advice because this is general advice and it is not specified to the individual! So I hope the general advice helped a little.
Sincerely,
Numa
March 2nd, 2010 at 11:51 pm
Being disabled don’t mean you can’t find a mate, it is how you carry yourself and the way you act. There is always a person for each other, no matter what you are.
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March 3rd, 2010 at 12:24 am
I suggest you be honest about whatever disability you have right up front. That will rule out anyone who might have a problem with it if they find out after communicating with you. If someone gets the notion that your disability is something you are afraid to disclose, they’ll be likely to think it’s so bad no one else would want to deal with you because of it either. Stress the positive aspects of your personality and avoid sounding or acting like you’re feeling sorry for yourself of seeking sympathy.
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March 3rd, 2010 at 12:44 am
Develop a relationship with someone first and see if you are compatible with time and don’t ask random people out! This is where I see a lot of people getting into trouble. Finding someone takes time and finding someone for life may never happen. My longest relationship was a year mainly because they moved and left for someone closer to home.
Also I should tell you that some people are not exactly happy in relationships. If you want a relationship you should want one not for the fact of loneliness but for the fact that you love them, that they are a dear friend, and you share something that you feel is impossible to have with anyone else. A good relationship never has fights, often lasts for a long time, and would in theory survive long distances… but you must realize that a relationship is not a one person game. Both people should be mutually content.
When it comes to studies they are all well and good but they don’t analyze an individual, every individual has their own obstacles to overcome. The best advice is to either never give up, or do the exact opposite but keep a window open for opportunity. If you do the opposite, find things in life that you enjoy and pursue them with a passion, forget about actively finding a personal mate. If someone happens to come your way accept them or make sure they are right for you before you except them. Solitude in some senses may be far better then a relationship! Always realize that and don’t let yourself be caught up in depression because you don’t have someone. I have seen a lot of bad relationships, I have seen a lot of relationships that people are together for the sake of being together, and I have found relationships that appear to a match that out does everything else. I guess this is not my best advice because this is general advice and it is not specified to the individual! So I hope the general advice helped a little.
Sincerely,
Numa
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March 3rd, 2010 at 12:49 am
study or not I disagree, Disabled people can easily find a date same as a non disabled person
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March 3rd, 2010 at 1:31 am
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